When a mother and a father separate usually the child or the children of the marriage or the relationship remain with either the mother or the father for
most of the time. The other parent (the non custodial parent) will spend time with the child or children as much as possible. The Family
Law Act 1975 provides for the non custodial parent to spend “substantial and significant” time with the child or children which is more than just two
nights per fortnight and half of school holidays. In any one fortnightly period the non custodial parent should expect to be able to spend time
with his or her child or children between three and five nights per fortnight. This is particularly so where the mother and the father live in
the same town. It may be different if there is a long distance between the parents. When it is not possible to spend time together the
children may still be in contact with the non custodial parent by telephone, email or through such things as Skype.
Orders revolving around children, sometimes called “Parenting Orders”, are not restricted to mothers and fathers. They may also relate to extended family members such as grandparents and the new partners of the mother or the father.
The only test which is important in determining who the children should live with and how much time they should spend with the other parent is what is in the best interests of the children. The Court usually takes the view that it is in the best interests of the children to spend as much time with both parents and that the more amicable the arrangement the less distress and suffering that the children of separated parents go through.
We would strongly advise you to obtain legal advice relating to your specific circumstances to ensure that you have all the information you need on your rights and obligations together with the options available to you to assist you in resolving any Family Law matter.